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Category: Dysfunctional relationships

How NLP Can Help When You Don’t Know What The Problem Is

Sep 26 2022 01:02pm

By Robbie Steinhouse

Oftentimes it’s difficult to pinpoint where a problem is, many people report simply feeling generally overwhelmed or stressed. Did you like this post? Then check out our events and coursesSign up to our e-learning Where to find us For posts, events, free open days and more, follow NLP School ...

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What are psychological games and why do people play them with us?

Feb 16 2022 03:14pm

By Robbie Steinhouse

Children need attention (and love) and when they don’t receive this, they develop strategies to gain negative attention by making their parents angry or worried. This approach to gaining attention becomes more sophisticated as people grow older and they start to use more elaborate strategies. These strategies are psychological ...

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Secondary Gain, Behind Every Behaviour is a Positive Intention

Feb 09 2022 03:35pm

By Robbie Steinhouse

Positive intention, secondary gain or payback as some people call it is the conscious or unconscious benefit we derive from any behaviour that we exhibit. Recognising that behind every behaviour is a positive intention is a primary assumption of NLP. It is a concept derived from humanistic psychologists like ...

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Using the Drama Triangle to Improve Your Relationships

Nov 09 2020 03:10pm

By Robbie Steinhouse

Much of the material we work with as coaches ends up being about human relationships – at work, of course, but also at home. Drama-triangle Dysfunctional relationships eat away at clients’ time and energy.

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How NLP Can Help With Your Relationships — The Drama Triangle

Apr 30 2020 03:06pm

By Sophie Leane

The pandemic is putting a strain on many people, personally and in their close relationships. Between the unprecedented period of proximity for many families, and the underlying atmosphere of stress, uncertainty and fear on the global stage, this is understandable.  I believe that good communication, as always, is the ...

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